5 Must-Have Keys For Successful Dating

Transform your dating by applying these 5 easy but deadly effective techniques to your game plan. Each one works and will help you get more dates and it's easier than you might think.

When getting phone numbers from new dates, do not tell them when you'll call them. Keep a sense of mystery and curiosity by saying: "I'm really busy at the moment but I'll try and call you sometime." Most people will give a specific time or ask - "I'll call you tomorrow - what's the best time?" Both are no good because they're predictable and also communicate need. Be laid back, say you'll call but don't say when and by saying you're really busy, you also communicate you have a life of your own.

Believe that you're a bit of a catch. A positive self image is so important if you are to succeed in dating and get the one you really want. Think of it like this: if someone approached you with a downbeat, negative and timid attitude, how attractive would you find them? Not very! And have you ever heard anyone say "I really I hope I find someone who has no self confidence, who thinks they're difficult to be with and is a nervous wreck." I haven't! If you don't like yourself, you will communicate this and it is an instant turn off. Confidence can be developed by anyone so if you lack it, resolve to do something about it.

Many experts bang on about clues to look for that tell you someone finds you attractive. They tell you to focus on: preening, playing with their hair, crossing their legs towards you, pointing feet in your direction, licking their lips - what an absolute load of nonsense. Forget this rubbish. If you want to get it on with someone, you select them and you create attraction with them by using your personality and your communication and by being different to the competition. If you wait for them to preen and point their feet towards you, you'll get nowhere. You want someone - make it happen and forget all about these silly attraction clues.

Have an upbeat, bright, optimistic attitude towards others and towards life. These are qualities admired by most people and are attractive by themselves. If you can make people not just feel comfortable in your company but have them really enjoy being around you, this will act like a drug and they'll be drawn towards you. Obviously, don't go overboard and be hyper with happiness, but make your company a positive experience, especially when you go dating.

Be prepared to meet dates when you least expect it. You don't always have to go to bars and clubs to meet new dates, you can find them in the most unlikely of places. Shops, supermarkets, bookstores, malls, markets, parks, gyms, theatres - you could see someone who floats your boat almost anywhere. So be prepared. Always look and feel good about yourself and always have a couple of approaches rehearsed in advance so you aren't taken by surprise. Even a "Hey, I'd really like to get to know you but I'm busy right now. Here's my number, call me." Is better than nothing. Think of several such easy approaches you can use for any situation.

You're now equipped with 5 very effective techniques to help you achieve the dating success you've always wanted. Reading is just the first part. You know have to put what you've read into action and that part is up to you. Why not give your new skills a test drive tonight?

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