- Why You Need a Life Coach By : Kurt Schmitt...
What's a life coach? Also called a life skills coach, having a coach is essentially like having a personal trainer for your life. Often working by phone consultation, and more rarely, in person, personal coaches work to help you improve various areas of your personal and business life. - The Concept of Balanced Success By : Vivek Ray
What is success? For different people success will mean different things. In this material world success is often equated with money one has and the kind of lifestyle one affords. Normally a person who lives in a big house or drives a fancy car or holds a good position in his office appears to be successful in the eyes of the world Success for most is achieving goals that gives them joy or pleasure. But unfortunately these achievements give short lived joy and this feeling of success is often a delusion. It is like a mirage after which the person runs and eventually forgets the very reason for which he is running.
In order to live a life of true success, it is vital that success is explained. Life has so many facets, and each of them is important to us. What will a person do with a lot of money, if he looses his peace of mind and health, gets away from his family and friend, feels in- secured, and ultimately unhappy? Of course, this can not be termed as success. - Be Content, Not Satisfied By : Vivek Ray
Success is not permanent. The achievement, you are feeling happy about will not mean a thing to you tomorrow. You must have taken some journeys when you were young. You must have felt good when a milestone passed as you looked out of the window, and a moment later you were looking forward to next. But were you still excited about the journey you had just taken when you reached the destination? - Life is a Lemon By : Vivek Ray
Squeeze a lemon, and it will produce a juice, too harsh to be palatable. But it forms the basis for lemonade, the world’s oldest refreshing drink. Like a lemon, life is full of sour things. It is full of challenges, hardships, pain and suffering. But in all this is hidden the seeds of greatest achievements, happiness and success. Life at times can even be cruel, but that is what makes it worth living. - Are You A Real Positive Thinker By : Vivek Ray
Over years I realized that simply thinking positively will not accomplish anything. The kind of positive thinking that a lot of people talk about is in a way denial of reality. It is great to think positive and speak positive. But what it can accomplish if it is not supported by the ability and skill. I am 34, and have never played football in my life. It does not matter how positive I think or speak, I can not become a professional footballer at this age. - Practical Ways to Bring Enchantment into Your Life By : Barbara Holstein
How to access positive states of well being again and again. These positive states are unique to you and often reflect your interests, talents, and potential. Here are some activities useful in helping you get in touch with your Enchanted Self. - How to Turn Adversity into Opportunity By : Tristan Loo
Adversity strikes all of us. Learn how to convert adversity into opportunity in this article by Personal Development Consultant Tristan Loo. - What Every Salesperson MUST Know About HYPNOSIS... By : Steve Meade
Imagine.... You look into your prospects eyes... You say a subconscious trigger word... and magically your prospect says yes, yes, yes!
Is this scenario real? Are master salespeople using powerful hypnotic sales techniques that you are not? Fifteen years ago, I had the same questions... - Magical Universe Online Success Checklist By : Saleem Rana
What happens when you combine the law of attraction with online marketing? Here are 10 magical keys to check it out. - The Power of Life Journaling By : Tristan Loo
There is no greater self-help tool than the life journal. Personal Development Coach Tristan Loo discusses how to use this tool in this article.
I am a firm believer that there is no greater self-help or self-exploration tool than a journal. That’s right—a simple blank book and a pen can help you manifest millions of dollars. It can help you identify goals. It can ease emotional pain or grief. It can transport you back in time. The journal is a physical manifestation of the contents within your own mind and heart. In this article, I am going to list some basic techniques and guidelines to follow when journaling. - She is a Perfectionist By : Robert Elias Najemy
Marina’s perfectionism annoys her husband, Dan.
Marina cannot relax if whatever she does is not perfect. Of course, nothing is ever perfect and thus Marina is usually in a very tense state. This attachment creates for her anxiety, fear, and a continual sense of danger.
This tension is transferred to her husband, Dan, who cannot understand why it takes Marina so long to do something, and why is it so important for her to do it over and over. He believes she is wasting her life away on details and losing the essence.
She, on the other hand, is usually angry with him because he does pay enough attention to details, which are important to her, especially when it pertains to order and cleanliness.
He feels suppressed by her constant nagging and is annoyed by her habitual tardiness. She is angry with him because he does not help her, and he is in angry with her because she is causing him to waste time in details that are not important.
What could they need to learn in order to... - The Genius of Persistence By : Saleem Rana
Every time we plug an appliance into the wall, it’s because he figured electricity out for us. His incandescent bulb changed our world.
He literally spread the light of his genius around the world.
Thomas Alva Edison.
150 years have passed since he was born.
What is the most remarkable thing about him is that he was not the most technically brilliant mind of his time.
In fact, Nikola Tesla considered him rather dim.
Here is his comment on Edison. If Edison had a needle to find in a haystack, he would proceed at once with the diligence of the bee to examine straw after straw until he found the object of his search...
I was a sorry witness of such doings, knowing that a little theory and calculation would have saved him ninety per cent of his labor.''
Nor was this mere abuse. Those who knew Tesla and his work were astonished. On May 18, 1917, at an AIEE annual meeting, B.A. Behrend made this laudatory poem: Nature and Nature's laws lay hid in night:
God said... - Anxiety about Grades By : Robert Elias Najemy
Our main question for each is what do I need to learn here in order to feel better or solve my problem or become more effective in creating what I really want in my life? - The Prerequisites for Becoming a Life Coach By : Robert Elias Najemy
If we really want to help people regardless of our credentials whether as a psychologist, counselor, life coach, doctor or friend we will need to as much as possible embody the following (we are using the word subject in the place of the words patient or client):
1. Care for the other and sincerely desire to help him or her. The subject will feel if we really care or not.
2. Accept whatever we hear and have an open mind. We must be able to hear that the other has murdered someone without judging him. The degree to which the other can open himself is dependent on how accepting he perceives us.
3. See what others call evil as weakness and ignorance and fear rather than as evil. Ignorance and misinterpretation of our true nature leads to a wide variety of ego-centered and often destructive behaviors.
4. Study and understand the functioning of the mind by observing ourselves and others and by studying what already has been discovered by the sciences of psychology, sociology... - The Evolution of Creativity By : Robert Elias Najemy
Thus, the first step is learning to control the body and mind through techniques such as dietary control, exercises, breathing techniques, relaxation techniques and meditation. - Just Divorced By : Robert Elias Najemy
Margarita’s husband just left her for another woman. Her world has collapsed. - Abilities, Talents and Powers By : Robert Elias Najemy
We all have abilities and powers that we have not yet developed. Many of us seem to subconsciously block the development of these natural abilities, which are waiting within us for a chance to express themselves. Our happiness and self-fulfillment depends on our expressing our inner potential as much as possible. Let us investigate how we can liberate ourselves from these limitations and express our full potential, for the sake of ourselves and the society around us.
There is one creative power in the universe and it expresses itself through all beings. Each and every being on the earth is an instrument for the expression of this universal creative energy, which is being expressed through all of nature unconsciously, and through man, to a certain extent, consciously. That is, the personality is becoming conscious of this creative energy and identifies with it. The following example will help us to understand the personality’s role in this creative process. - Island of Dreams By : Saleem Rana
I’m going to give you a trivial example to illustrate something huge.
Apply this tip and you’ll step into a transformation.
I’m promising you this because it happened to me.
For years now, I’ve had, as my desktop, a picture of a white colonial mansion set in a verdant green garden.
This symbolized prosperity for me. Tradition, security, and spacious and gracious living.
One day, however, I got impatient with it, sifted through what other images I had on my hard-drive and discovered a breathtaking island scene…sparkling waters, a painted swatch of cerulean blue sprinkled with sapphire, a golden, sun-drenched island with languid palm trees rustling in the wind, and a massive white sailing ship cutting through the water, heading straight for the island.
Now whenever I sit in front of my computer, I feel the pull of my dreams even stronger—a life of beauty and elegance, achievement, contribution, and even joy. - How We Evaluate Ourselves By : Robert Elias Najemy
We need to understand how we value ourselves and hopefully heal ourselves from an epidemic of self-doubt and self-rejection.
We are spirit which is eternal and divine. Being divine in nature there is no question about our worthiness. As spirit we are "encased" in the personality, which is our temporary projection into the physical and mental dimensions. This personality is encased in a circle of beliefs, which define and limit it. These basic beliefs mature and manifest as needs and motives in the life of the personality. These needs and motives then generate various efforts towards certain goals (material, emotional, mental, social, professional, spiritual etc.).
We make efforts towards the satisfaction of some need or goal. At each stage of this effort certain results are forthcoming. We identify with these results and are very attached to them, because through them we measure our worthiness. - Life Mapping: A Vision of Success By : Janette Marie Freeman
Success is more than economic gains, titles, and degrees. Planning for success is about mapping out all the aspects of your life. Similar to a map, you need to define the following details: origin, destination, vehicle, backpack, landmarks, and route. - Our Love Partner's Needs By : Robert Elias Najemy
Mark what you believe to be your love partner’s needs
(Or the members of the opposite sex’s general needs)
1. Love (or greater expression of it)
2. Respect
3. Understanding (of what?)
4. To accept them as they are
5. Acknowledgement and affirmation
6. Trust
7. Freedom to think and function as they believe and in accordance with their needs... - A Philosophy of Life By : Robert Elias Najemy
We are totally responsible for the reality we experience. - How To Solve Persistent And Frustrating Problems By : Saleem Rana
Solving persistent and frustrating problems is not about doing more or trying harder, nor is it even about soliciting an expert opinion—it’s about changing your mind, your circumstances, and your life by finding a new answer that specifically works for you. - Truths That Enable us to Experience Our True Self By : Robert Elias Najemy
I am worthy of love and respect regardless of others’ opinions or behavior. - Be Courageous! By : Ann Stewart
"Be strong and of a good courage; be not afraid, neither be thou dismayed: for the Lord thy God is with thee withersoever thou goest." - Being the Leader in Your Own Life By : Janette Marie Freeman
Were you trained as a child, to be a follower or a leader? Many of us were trained to surrender our power early in life. In usually subtle ways we were taught to live by the rules imposed on us by parents, society, religious leadership and educational training, and taught to be followers- not leaders. Do you recognize a few of these rules? - How to Live More Authentically by Saying “Yes to Me” By : Janette Marie Freeman
Have you ever stood at the precipice of deep choice… knowing that either choice you make will bring radically different results? - TRANSFORMATION: It’s ALL Spiritual Transformation By : Janette Marie Freeman
Transformation is the buzz word of the day. I know; I use it regularly, it is a word that calls me. I have spent thousands of dollars, hours and work on my own transformation, and I am reminded: it's ALL spiritual transformation. - Understanding Self-Doubt, Shame, Guilt, Self-Rejection, Unworthiness By : Robert Elias Najemy
This is a part of a series of articles with questions, which will help us understand our emotions and how we can free ourselves from unwanted ones. - Sex Eros amd Love on The Spiritual Path By : Robert Elias Najemy
Sex, "erotas" and love are our most powerful drives. They are simultaneously the sources of our greatest happiness and our deepest pain. - It Takes As Much Energy To Fail As To Succeed By : Saleem Rana
When we view failure and success as an energy-consuming matrix it becomes quite obvious where and how to apply our attention and effort. - Use Coaching As A Means to Recognize Your Goals By : Abbas Abedi
Advice from a coach can help you determine what exactly you want. You need exact goals to succeed. - EFT & Finding our Purpose in Life - part 1 By : Robert Elias Najemy
Many of us are discontented with our work and / or our lifestyle, but few of us can identify what it is we really want. Fewer still have the courage to make the changes necessary to find happiness and fulfillment. - Strength and Fear, Emotion and Logic By : Robert Elias Najemy
A few years ago, Angela almost fainted in the center of town. She felt helpless. She was losing her senses among all those strangers. - Be A Dreamer By : Katheryn Hoban
strive for greatness!! Dream big. - As Always Learn to Develop Patience By : Katheryn Hoban
develop patience - Working With Compassion By : Katheryn Hoban
Learn to develop your compassion - The Love Focus By : Robert Elias Najemy
Daily positive projection will help us cultivate feelings of openness and love with the people and situations we have had difficulty remaining open to until now. - Getting Along with "Intimidators" By : Robert Elias Najemy
Intimidators control us by making us fear. They keep us from asking for anything or from controlling them in any way, - Are You Ready for LOVE? By : Amirah Hall
Your own resistance prevents you from having the love you desire. As you begin to feel better about yourself, people will begin to notice you differently. In order to make room for what you do want, you have to let go of what you don’t want. - She Loves Him But is Not "In love" With Him. By : Robert Elias Najemy
Betty loves Stan but she is not "in love" with him. He has proposed marriage. What she should do? - Understanding ours and others' Needs By : Robert Elias Najemy
We need to understand and communicate our needs. At the same time, it is important to be able to hear, and if possible, respond to the other’s needs. - Dump Your NEXT Boss? Maybe. How to Screen an Employer! By : Paul Megan
By the time an interview rolls around you’re so grateful you got this far you wouldn’t think of rejecting your next boss. But maybe you should. Sometimes the person you might report to just isn’t right for you. - A Success Formula! By : Daegan Smith
People are divided into 2 classes. There are those who are rich and can afford to buy anything and there are those who just have enough. - How to Grab a Prospective Employer . . . The 5 Critical Perceptions! By : Paul Megan
Meeting face-to-face with a prospective employer is where it all happens. And you thought all you needed was a good resume! - How To Upgrade Your Success By : Saleem Rana
By understanding the two concepts of processes and resources and how best to use them, you can cause a major upgrade in your level of success. - Interviewers as “Terminators?”. . . How to Bypass the Torture! By : Paul Megan
There’s a fabulous alternative job search plan that can show you how to bypass the whole resume/interview hoopla and get you directly to the hiring decision-maker who’s going to make the ultimate decision about bringing you on board . . . and without all the competition? - How to do Active Listening By : Robert Elias Najemy
Active listening is another basic tool of effective communication. It is employed whenever the other has a problem. - Carrying Your Burdens By : Ann Stewart
How heavy are the burdens you’re carrying? Are you weighed down with a load of guilt, financial woes, an abusive husband, or the death of a child? Jesus says: “My yoke is easy, and my burden is light.” (Mat. 11:30) - Spiritual Weight Lifting By : Robert Elias Najemy
When we want to strengthen our muscles we lift weights. During this process our muscles become stronger in response to the need to cope with the strain, which is put on them. - Success Strategies By : Michael Nalbone
There are things you can do and guidelines you can follow to make your dreams more attainable. - Overcome all Odds at all Costs: Turn Failure into Success By : Daegan Smith
When somebody fails on a project, always consider whether the failure can be turned into a success. Satisfy yourself that you will not be wasting time and money. Then, if there is a reasonable chance of saving the project and the person, take it. - The Secret to Unlimited Success By : Daegan Smith
Every year, the long laborious period of toil towards learning and excellence always come to an end. Every year, the society is producing hundreds of graduates who will soon face the precarious but wonderful world of professionals. - Why Personal Growth is SO Lucrative By : Daegan Smith
Success. I presume that all of us want this big thing. Nobody will take success for granted be it success in career, success in love life, success in school, success in a contest, or success in life in general. Everybody works to having it. But behind this quest for success, it is important to note in our list that success is not an overnight activity. - Relationships and Life’s Lessons By : Robert Elias Najemy
When we do not get what we want from our relationships, we often feel hurt, abused, rejected, disappointed, bitter and angry. - Why Have A Coach? By : Clare Evans
There are many positive benefits to working with a coach but it's not necessarily the right decision for everyone.
Professional athletes have a coach to help them train hard and achieve the success they want.
Find out what a coach can do for you.
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